I , throughout my humble social experience , witnessed sex evolve from this social tabou and restricted topic to the most viral underground practice among teens and young adults .
As a 20 years old , I feel both triggered and concern .Stuck beteen between a conscience that tells me that I’m such desirable sex minx , and a subconscience warning me from burning in hell with the sinners , Now that I’m fully grown as an individual, It’s hard to set up my mind around a specific conviction : longing for pleasures or seeking intimacy .
Sex has became a complex matter facing the health , the maintenance and the continuity of many relationships , with the evolution of concepts such as night stands , free relationships , and no strings attached , lovers of all age and gender can’t help but finding themselves in a crossed ethnic patterns : should I do the jump ? is it even worth it ?
The real meaning and value of the word sex or how I like to call it “the love making process” keeps on fading , shrinked to nothing more than adult fun and a social rebellishment.
How could something so pure so taken so narcissisticly out of it’s context ?
Sex suppose to be a worship where two souls collide , a cosmic emission and reception of love frequencies , a beautiful display of a physical metamorphose , a connection that is both physical and spiritual , a sacred power that is capable of healing and creating life . it’s the closest you can to the gods .
But with this escalading romanticizing of mental illnesses and psychological instabilities and the submerging trend of complexes of inferiority (this convinction of unworthiness to be loved) and our modern ways of speeding humain interaction processes (tinder , grinder .. ) , people convince them selves that sex ; just like many sex drug substances made to uplift your mood ; is an other form of everyday consumption , then drag themselves in this viscious circle of self shaming over the meaningless of their acts . and just like love energy fades , humain interactions looses its meaning.
See sex isnt just a child's play for fun , it's the reason we are born and still alive , it's the fuile that pushes humain to higher levels of positive affirmation and energy , giving life day to day a purpose . something that is that much impactful shouldnt be treated so unwisely .